If you’ve been following Baby On A Budget, you know that we were surprised this spring to find out that we have baby #3 on the way, and that since I quit my “serious” job last fall, we need to keep the baby related expenses to a minimum this time.
Now we move onto what is, for many families, a large and ongoing cost associated with having a baby. Diapering. Ah, the joys of motherhood!
There are three main choices when it comes to diapering your baby, disposable, cloth or hybrid.
You can all-out disposable diaper, and I’ll never judge you for it. It is by far the most popular way to diaper for most parents today. We mostly used “‘sposies” with our first two kids, even though in my heart of hearts I wanted to be a cloth diaper mama. More about that later. If you do choose to disposable diaper your baby, plan on spending around $40/month for a budget diaper. We loved Kirkland Signature from Costco, and Up and Up from target. There was a time when I loved Luvs, but the quality declined to the point I couldn’t justify the savings any more. I did some internet research today and was surprised to see that diaper prices haven’t really increased since we had our last baby nearly six years ago. At least something is holding steady! If you choose to go the ‘sposie route, you’ll probably also buy wipes, at around $20 for a two or three month supply, and you may or may not need to upgrade your garbage service. We typically use the smallest can available from Waste Management, but had to upgrade while we were disposable diapering our girls. The cost of upgrading will vary by your location. Assuming you choose to disposable diaper, using an economy brand, you’ll spend around $1620 to diaper each child for three years, not counting the cost of added garbage service.
Another option is to cloth diaper, and it’s what I plan to do with this newest baby. The cost of getting started in cloth diapering is, for many, a little off-putting. If you go with brand new, name brand, all-in-one or pocket diapers you’ll spend between $15-$25, PER DIAPER (EEEK!) and you’ll need about 24-36 diapers depending on how often you want to do diaper laundry. A brand new basic diaper and cover system will cost more like $140, and should be almost all you need from 8-30lbs. I’d add a set of newborn sized covers and prefolds, for around $42 because in my experience the “infant” sized diapers and covers are way too big for a newborn, and the longer you use the adorable, trim, tiny and (no denying) convenient newborn sposies, the harder it will be to make the transition to cloth.
Last of all there is the hybrid route, or as some call it the “gateway diaper”. The hybrid has a washable, reusable diaper cover, much like you would use with cloth diapers, and a “flushable”, biodegradable insert. The start up cost for these diapers is similar to that of cloth diapering, new or used, respectively. Unfortunately you also have the ongoing cost, which is similar to disposables, and they may or may not actually be flushable depending on your system. These downfalls are why many call these “gateway” diapers. People get tired of buying the inserts and start using cloth inserts, or they get tired of unclogging their toilets, and start tossing them into the trash, and then figure since they’re tossing them anyway, they might as well save themselves the laundry and go full ‘sposie.
Our cloth diaper stash is a combination of (barely used) leftover prefolds and Bummis Super Whisper Wraps from our last baby, some prefolds from a local second hand store, a ton of receiving blankets we had around and from thrift stores, and a couple of good ebay/facebook purchases of 4 newborn sized covers and 4 one-size pocket diapers. I also recently cut up a bunch of stained and worn out cotton tee shirts into newborn sized flats, and upcycled wool diaper covers out of a sweater I had gotten at a yard sale and ended up never wearing . I’ll let you know how well those work. 🙂
Not counting what I spent on the diapers left over from our previous baby, (It was 6 years ago, I can’t remember what they cost!) I spent $54 on the above stash which, very likely, would have covered our needs. Then I saw another great deal that I couldn’t pass up on a Facebook group! For another $50, I scored 10 brand new, still-in-the-package, Fuzzi Bunz perfect sized pocket diapers! Those of you who follow cloth diapering know that was a steal.
What about the cost of all that extra washing? Good Question. I make my own laundry detergent and have stocked up on extra supplies to continue doing that for around $20. That’s more than double what I spend on a typical 6 month supply of my homemade laundry detergent. Depending on where you live, the cost of extra water, and electricity to run the washer and dryer may make cloth diapering cost prohibitive. We are thankful to have a well, and some of the nation’s least expensive electricity, so for us it makes sense. You’ll have to do the math to see if it works for you.
Grand Total for diapering (unless I find another impossible-to-pass-up steal): $124 (plus the cost of doing an extra 2-3 wash loads per week…I’ll let you know after we see a power bill with the diaper loads included.)
Now that we have our poop catching situation in hand we’ll move onto poop making.
That’s right, come back next time and we’ll dig into how to feed your little guy without incurring an entire new grocery budget. (Most of you probably already know the short answer, right?!)
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